Destiny Architect complete intro

1. ^MDAI9C:covers introductory details (mostly textual) that are not well coverable by my other web profiles.
2. ^MAYCNN:should be updated ~1x/month; last entry is version ID.
3. ^M87XAJ:has all key details BOLD with most-essential & -timely first.
4. ^MAZBWQ:has SUBSECTIONS: GOOGLE BIO, OCCUPATIONS, FAMILY, PETS, & FRIENDS, ROMANTICALLY, HEALTH, PERSONALITY, VALUES & GOALS, A PIONEER FOR GOOD, MY BADS, JUICY DETAILS, ALTERNATIVES, , POST TODO, FOOTNOTES, ADDITIONAL POST HISTORY.

1. ^MESILL:Note if using an Android device: due to a Google Bug, seemingly all Google profiles presently aren’t browsable from Android w/o putting the browser into Desktop mode which isn’t possible on many Android browsers.  Bug report coming soon.
2. ^MEHZZ7:archive copy last updated 2012.12.03tue038
   

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3. ^MEHZSM:archives folder (then click File->Download)

1. ^MEHUZR:Present (Occupations)

   1. ^MD9JGF:~45% of my time, a SOCIAL ARCHITECT & SOFTWARE ARCHITECT for good causes, including:

      1. ^MEHNSU:90% EXPOSITORY WRITIING (writer) with ~4 NEW PUBLICATIONS PER WEEK (both articles & events, on mostly social- & information-technology, in a Wikipedia-page-like format)
         1. ^MEHNY2:on topics:
            1. ^MEHNTY:~80% social-technology (as most of 1.JotHere category “social”), especially:
               1. ^MEHP0Z:~45% romance (as most of 1.JotHere category “romance”), 1st publication ~1999
               2. ^MEHP75:~40% social rules for individuals & organizations
                  1. ^MEJANK:as universal rules and guidelines for (Meetup.com & similar) in-person groups
                  2. ^MEJAO0:as the blogger.LoveRules.Info website
               3. ^MEHW5M:~15% other stuff as “humans’ increasing socially-disposable society”
            2. ^MEHNVC:~15% information-technology as in 1.JotHere.com category “Google” plus much more
         2. ^MEHO03:on media:
            1. ^MEHO15:websites, notably Web 2.0 sites, notably with multi-person authoring of primary text, notably:
               1. ^MEIOPR:wiki else can be made wiki-like
                  1. ^MD9NSP:~70%, on 1.JotHere: my (public) articles plus more comments & posts, due to its most powerful features & future.
                  2. ^MEHODV:~20%, publishing on Meetup (especially events & discussions within the groups in which I’m a leader; no way to sort by author)
                  3. ^MEHOQ1:~3%:  en.Wikipedia.Org, about 100 edits including ~3 new pages.
               2. ^MEIS65:shared filesystem as JIT_archive_LJNZCF of 0.JotHere.com
               3. ^MEIS9J:spreadsheet as Google Spreadsheets as in 2012 voting.
               4. ^MEISN5:other web databases: coming.
            2. ^MEHO2K:not  books/eBooks, intentionally, as they cannot provide to readers the info features that wikis & similar do
         3. ^MEIOZA:with “MEStyl=my information-especially-authoring/writing style, a Wikipedia-article-like format”
      2. ^MEHO8I:~10% technical design & programming of:
         1. ^MEHQM8:~50% JotHere (which develops a next-gen publishing platform), for the same reason I publish there
         2.  ^MEHQN9:~50% other projects, also websites mostly
            1. .^MEHQJL:Example: a next gen voting website mentioned on my OC-Python profile referenced on my meeting report.

   2. ^MD9JGV:~30% of my time, a founder & leader & member of a number of COMMUNITY GROUPS, plus an author of full standards for operating them.

      1. ^MD9NOU:ESPECIALLY ON MEETUP
         1. ^MELLL4:I’ve been founding & running Meetup groups since 2004 (since back when Meetup was so new they weren’t even charging!) and publishing Meetup guides since 2010 (my 1st eBook).
      2. ^MELOOR:My recent community leadership & support from-most-to-least important
         1. ^MDDBTP:Since 2010.10.28, Head & effective Founder of the county’s largest & oldest Android group for developers+users, OCAndroid
         2. ^MEJ8I4:Since 2012.07.06, Co-Organizer of the county’s largest Polyamory group, OC-Polyamory
         3. ^MEJ8VE:Since 2012.12.01~, Co-Organizer of the county’s largest Python group (for programmers), OCPUG
         4. ^MEJ9G9:Since 2009.10.13, Founder & Head of the county’s scalable Unitarian Universalist Young Adult Group, UUYA-US-CA-OC, and inventor & founder of its parent UUYA International, but 2010.07~, sadly all this was effectively destroyed by local UU leaders due to their internal hypocrisy.
         5. ^MEJ962:Since 2010.05.13, Head of one of the biggest Asian social groups in the county, AsianFriendster, but, from it’s prior leadership heavily burning out members and then me not being Asian in skin, it’s so far been un-activatable.
         6. ^MEJ8D7:plus a member of ~30 more Meetup groups!
         7. ^MELOT0:See my main Meetup profile listing all my Meetup groups & interests BUT NOTE:
            1. ^MELP08:Meetup main profiles don’t tell you they list one’s groups mostly alphabetically and one’s interests by most-recently added, NOT BY ORDER OF IMPORTANCE to the person.
      3.  ^MESIVG:My relevant background (useful to leading & organizing organizations & groups)
         1. ^MELPCC:I put to great use here my business leadership plus especially my military (8yrs,from low-level Enlisted to Officer+Combat Vet) also blessing me with the world’s top leadership training & certification.
         2. ^MESIS0:Also useful is my profession & experience in web publishing plus, especially for tech groups, being an MIT CS grad.
      4. ^MELOIV:And from those experiences, background, & more, I publish now dozens of free articles on “universal rules and guidelines for (Meetup.com & similar) in-person groups” 
         1. ^MELQJB:which gives most any community group:
            1. ^MELQJL:a substantial pre-built, tested, & rather-complete set of great rules & guidelines to use as is, comment on, & extend
            2. ^MELQOI:a badge of integrity, “We’re a proud follower & endorser of universal rules and guidelines for (Meetup.com & similar) in-person groups” –like being a member of the Better Business Bureau!
      5. ^MESLJR:Also worth note, many community leaders typically don’t have my background and often not my experience
         1. ^MESLZD:especially on Meetup.com, as they literally enable making anyone an instant community leader but with 0 training & tests and virtually 0 leadership standards, so a recipe guaranteeing & delivering a lot of mistreatment.
      6. ^MESKQK:so I can & do help out a lot!
         1. ^MESLBX: –provided of course that folks 
            1. ^MESP1V:don’t mis-take my experience & especially my background (as be intimidated or jealous or not yet see the need for high leadership standards) and instead
            2. ^MESP2B:realize that, of course, I only have some of the answers, and I see everybody as part of the answer!
      7. ^MELP7U:And on Meetup, I’m open to be a leader on more groups.
         1. ^MESNGK:The higher level you place me, the more good I can do for you.
         2. ^MELPZH:On my Meetup profile for your group, just do “Admin Tools ” -> “Manage Roles” then select as high as possible organizer job for me, ideally “Co-Organizer” –as I’m qualified for it, especially to do admin, and will do a great job!

   3. ^MDDCIN:~10% of my time, a good friend, family member, & uncle

   4. ^MEHX5E:~10% of my time, eating, entertainment, & the various admin tasks of life

   5. ^MD9JH4:~3% of my time, a pretty good 4-count hustle & free-style dancer; and

   6. ^MD9JHE:~2% of my time, a too-often a hopeless romantic

      1. ^MEHWZM:–though I’d like do this a whole lot more time being a romantic, especially not hopelessly, but I’ve got to find a matching romance!
   7. ^MEHXAG:–does not include sleeping; I typically sleep ~8hrs/day. 

2. ^MEHUTM:Former (occupations) 

   1. ^MDDBG5:a MIT CS grad, BS degree+ full MS work, top in my CS undergrad class, combined with VI-A (a select masters program with industry internship at Bell Communications Research where, among other things, I received a patent for my VLSI circuit design which guaranteed performance & used ~1/1ot the parts);  plus a minor in business; plus many other accomplishments (for example: see “Bragging rights” on my Google Bio . Was ton of fun!
   2. ^MDDBGX:a US Military Reserves Combat Vet & former 8yr-Soldier 
      1. ^MDKFGA:serving with rank
         1. ^MDKFHC:from Enlisted, specifically ranks E4(Specialist=SPC) to NCO=Non-Commissioned Officer specifically E5(Sargent=SGT), as a supplies quartermaster, specifically 92A=Automated[Computer] Logistics Specialist in the quartermaster unit which stockpiled & supplied all class I,IIIP,IV for all combined allied forces of Operation Iraqi Freedom)
         2. d^MDKFHY:to Commissioned Officer, specifically ranks O1(2nd Lieutenant=2LT) to O2 (1st Lieutenant=1LT), in medical (specifically 70D=Health Services Systems Manager[="Medical Computers & Communications Officer"]) in a combat support hospital=CSH).
      2. ^MDKFIO:Served  a year Operation Iraqi Freedom including combat, and a bunch of other stuff.  Learned a great deal from it, including the best leadership training in the world. For me, it made MIT look easy.
      3. 

         ^MEJCMP:Me at Medical Officers training, in a combat hospital tent

         ^MEHUO7:The US Armed Forces offers the overall best leadership training in the world, and I made sure to get all of it (all basics on all levels), a key reason I joined.

   3. ^MEHUWM:Founded a few businesses (including 1 corporation) and several groups, some which are in operation today.
      1. ^MESJBG:Recruited & hired ~20 employees.
   4. ^MEHUXZ:Much more

3. ^MEHTYX:Why (these occupations)

   1. ^MEHU1A:Foremost, the best way I’ve found for me to most improve the world, including:
      1. ^MEHPTX:IT is fun & comes so easily to me it’s like child’s play to show off; but social-technology the world obviously needs much more, indeed needs tremendously  (including I need it much more, too!) and is much harder to do if doing proper scientifically (it’s actually quite a bit challenging, including extremely challenging to sell & profoundly improve people), so why I focus on it.
      2. ^MEHU6I:Architecting
         1. ^MEHUD9:fits my desire & my ability to innovate and
         2. ^MEHUDC:involves not just inventing, but designing solutions for real society and incorporating them into it
         3. ^MEHUEL:is my MBTI: INTP
      3. ^MEHUHU:To make big, lasting improvement to the world typically requires both
         1. ^MEHUK3:great tech skills
            1. ^MEHV97:-so I went to MIT, graduated top in my CS class, & got a circuit patent et al
            2. ^MEHV9Q:-this is fairly easy for me
         2. ^MEHUL4:plus especially great leadership
            1. ^MEHVC1:-this is  fairly hard for me (including I tuned out socially for much of my early life and am not a natural leader; indeed in the military many times I was told “Why not just make it easy on yourself and be a warrant officer instead of a commissioned officer?”), but leadership is still typically key for great change
            2. ^MEHVDL:-so I got all the US Armed Forces teaches plus lead and sometimes founded groups & businesses.
   2. ^MEHW0K:Second, it’s (mostly) tons of fun! , at least when one turns every problem into a challenge plus a few other tricks from keeping going crazy!

1. ^MD9JF4:I am also always very close, else as close as possible, with my local friends & family & pets.
   1. ^MDE3JL:This is very important to me me! Including I aim to never operate alone, and, for me, the day has not much meaning unless shared with someone.
      

      ^MDE8N9:Holding my nephew & niece on my knee at Farrell’s Ice Cream Parlour, 2012.06.13.

   2. ^MDE2W9:including I’m close to my niece & nephew (I’m seemingly their favorite uncle! .
   3. ^MDE3XJ:I get along with kids very well.
   4. ^MDCYOD:though I can’t always be fully close with all:
      1. ^MDE41B:my father died from overworking about ~1year after I got out of college.
      2. ^MDE42Q:my mother & especially sister routinely treat me a bit like Cinderella‘s.
2. ^MDE4DW:On pets
   1. ^MDE4EE:I think of & treat pets like family.
   2. ^MDE4ER:I’ve had these pets: dachshund Pepper (and offspring), a few small fish, cat Kitty, parakeet Polly, cockatiles George & buddy.
   3. ^MDE4WA:I do not have a pet now but
      

      ^MDE7IO:Bella & me about to take an adventure!, ~2011.

      1. ^MDE4XC:my sister’s labrador retriever Bella seems to love me more than anyone, and I take her on adventures which she loves.
      2. ^MDE714:starting 2012, I’m thinking about getting a bird, possibly a cockatile or something a bit more fancy.
   4. ^MDE4K5:I tend to only want 1 pet at a time, as having more just feels confusing for me. I guess one could say I’m a “monopetaist” like monogamist ;-)
3. ^MDE3HJ:Hundreds if not thousands of people know me, including I work with dozens; but I tend to have just a few very close people in my life.
4. ^MDE9SC:I now have a good platonic guy friend I spend a  lot of time with. He’s a also quite geeky like me, so we have good times doing technical things. But he doesn’t like socializing  so almost never goes out. He’s a bit like M-O of WALL-E.
5. ^MDE3RE:I would like a few more in-person platonic friends.
6. ^MDE3GB:It is hard for me to identify who would make a good platonic friend.
7. ^MDE330:Paul & David, two very close many-year platonic friends who are no longer in the area, both independently later said they notably picked me as their friend because of my integrity (perhaps because it inspired them!), something which quite pleases me.
8. ^MDE5LB:I strongly believe: Only a real friend tells you what you need to hear but don’t want to. So don’t hate this person; instead listen-to  & love him/her.
9. ^MDE633:For me, when it comes to friends, family, pets, & romance, there is no real substitute for MOST interactions/time being in-person.
   1. ^MDE67U:Naturally via the web, most notably via Facebook, like most anyone, I could have unlimited friends, family, romance, and even pets! –provided the interactions were mostly-if-not-entirely not-in-person.
      1. ^MDE683:but unlike it seems many people today, that last caveat is NOT okay with me, and indeed may be unhealthy as a substitute, though it certainly makes Facebook most of its money.
   2. ^MDE6A0: For me, once the in-person relationships are well taken care of, THEN I’ll open up to significant not-in-person relationships if I still have time & need for that.
10. ^MDE55B:On introducing you to my friends, pets, & family
    1. ^MDE54S:Because I don’t have 100s of “friends” and because this web page can be read by people I totally don’t know, I’m not comfortable naming & listing my family & friends here, yes even though that’s common on social networks.  But
    2. ^MDE4ZU:In person, I readily introduce people to my family & friends, yes including people I date.

1. ^MD9ENA:I’m available but require quality just as I offer:

   1. ^MD9ENF:Notably I only accept romance truly based on being-friends which includes responsibly facing & accepting truth (as my own parents were: they were best-friends forever, mostly because they were totally open with each other about everything, how I was raised), specifically being romance-friends.
      1. ^MD9EOP:And, to protect my heart, even for the best looking woman, increasingly I test for this upfront, which self-disqualifies most potential mates,
         1. ^MD9SY8:as typically a woman may be great looking but she isn’t actually a true friend to her romances, often heavily because she can’t handle real honesty in romance, instead will only accept a dream, specifically only men falsely promising her a dream.
            

            ^MD9PHM:Caught in the Pasadena Rose Parade rain with Po (one of the fine ladies I dated), taken 2006.01.02

      2. ^MD9EOZ:One reason for these standards is, for a deserving woman, I’m known for being a lady pleaser (one of my absolute most favorite things to do -I adore pleasing a lady!) and I have had a few offers of marriage, plus more women than should be counted I found mostly just wanting me for sex. But
      3. ^MD9EQM:I refuse casual sex and just-for-sex (never liked that, and am increasingly able to detect & halt that faster); and
   2. ^MD9ER7:I have not yet been married nor had kids though quite want these, but, like the rest of my family, being responsible I’ll only do them when it is clear they’ll work for the lifetime they should work.
   3. ^MD9TZH:My OkCupid profile tells much more.
2. ^MD9ES5:From 99% full-condom use my entire life and similar responsibility, I’ve never had an accidental pregnancy nor effectively-ever caught an STI and am tested STI-free.

3. ^MD9ESI:I’m also open to be a sperm-donor to would-be responsible parents.

   1. ^MDAHOM:See notably good genetics.
   2. ^MDAHPA:Most all methods of delivery seem possible except freezing so not via a sperm bank.

1. ^MDAG16:Nature/Born-this-way including Genes

   ^MD9F96:Though not without flaws, it so far all my life I’m a bit more physically healthy than is typical, and notably more mental capacity than is typical, apparently mostly from just genetics, which is good since it would likely be inherited by my offspring (see Romantically) both via a partner and as a sperm donor.
   ^MDAGRB:every relevant seemingly-genetic trait, from best-to-worst:

   1. ^MD99BA:LEADING PRO: Very good-hearted -extremely important IMHO, and exemplified by values & goals.
   2. ^MDCLXN:BIG PRO: Mensa IQ (top 2 percentile)
      

      ^MD9SM1:Relaxing in my 2nd motorhome, taken 2006~.

   3. ^MD99BD:NOTABLE PRO: physically age at ~71% the normal rate. This is tends to be a social disadvantage when young, but notable overall advantage when older.
   4. ^MD9OTI:NOTABLE PRO: never gain significant weight and passed most all my US military physical tests without exercise, even though:
      1. ^MD9OVD:eat mostly fast-foods (but mostly healthy ones as my favorite Chipotle!),
      2. ^MD9OVL:virtually never work-out as history shows I don’t need it and I just find it unfun
         1. ^MD9P20:though I quite enjoy doing physical- sports&adventure, but I typically rarely do it, except for some intense dancing .
   5. ^MD99BG:PRO: always tall, thin, runner’s build; 6ft ~196lbs, though could stand to loose ~7lbs.
   6. ^MD99BJ:PRO IMHO: all my life, very turned off by casual-sex or just-for-sex, seemingly unlike most men, and to my surprise even more so than many women including my own mother!
   7. ^MDCKB1:PRO (though there are other good choices): Rating ~1 of 0to6 on the Kinsey Scale, including:
      
      1. ^MDCKFO:I’m very heterosexual (a lady’s man, as many ladies have found) and but every-year-or-so find a rare man kind of sexy but have never been sexual with a man
      2. MDCKG1:At the appropriate time (as when being funny), I’m very good at pretending to be gay and especially pretending to be a very-sexually aggressive mostly-heterosexual woman (at Halloween, I win sexiest-costume contests dressed as a Very-Naughty Punk Catholic School Girl –but  wearing a beard & mustache as otherwise many people really do think I’m a woman!).
      3. ^MDCYCR:For whatever it means, I’ve often felt I would be better off being a woman as women look prettier and especially to then really show women how to handle men (it’s so easy, women just don’t get it!), but in a woman’s body I might no longer know, and I would still much prefer to be romantic with women.
   8. ^MDAFFY:MOSTLY PRO: extraordinary (top ~0.5 percentile) native ability to decide by conscious logic and not emotion
      

      ^MDD0B3:“Leonard Nimoy as Spock, a Human/Vulcan hybrid, demonstrating the Vulcan salute”
      – No, I don’t outwardly appear like him, but I think like him!

      1. ^MDCKVL:-truly as if I was born as a robot-emulating-emotions as David of A.I. or Data of Star Trek, or especially as if humanoid-built-to-operate-by-pure-logic as a Vulcan of Star Trek as the most famous Spock (plus I’ve already got big ears!) –but I’m NOT fictional, I’m real!
      2. ^MDCX6D:Starting with, beginning in ~4th grade, on my own and without anyone saying a word about it, I would just come to the conclusion something was bad ROI (as watching cartoons or TV I wouldn’t remember the next day) or just bad (as anyone displacing upsetness on others) so would then silently suddenly stop doing that emotional behavior cold-turkey, and would never do it again.
      3. ^MDCXN8:indeed until 2008 (I wish I were kidding but I’m not), I sincerely believed everyone could these things no problem, so if they didn’t they just weren’t being respectful.
   9. ^MDKDWF:PRO: natural perfect 20/20 vision & hearing, tested by the US military, including never needed glasses.
   10. ^MD9OLP:TINY PRO: when tired, easily & soundly sleep ~8hrs/day (and with a romance, I very much like to hold her all night
   11. ^MDCK0Z:TINY PRO: good at identifying voices: from just a few words, as well as gender, can often identify the exact person or performer and can sometimes tell ethnicity, age, where-grew-up, and, but only for men, sexual orientation.
   12. ^MDAHXY:TINY CON: don’t or barely float in fresh- & probably sea-water (without a floatation device), so slightly denser than water apparently due to low fat & strong bones.
   13. ^MD99BM:SMALL CON: can freeze easily, meaning can’t naturally stay warm in very cold environments, including easily have cold feet & nose despite a warm heart!
   14. ^MD99BP:SMALL CON: sweat ~3x more than average when humidity or working hard physically; I find this annoying.
   15. ^MDKED9:SMALL CON: seemingly a tad lower than average night-vision (or maybe it’s just that in dark nightclubs, I don’t like talking as much to new people I can’t fully see!
   16. ^MD99C0:CON: the common cold is my achilles’ heel, taking me ~6 weeks to rid, including up to 14 days of an antibiotic as doxycycline.
   17. ^MD9OE3:CON (as unlike most people, but like most programmers): night owl; specifically mornings I have lowest energy, but my energy steady increases thru the day to be absolutely highest late at night.
   18. ^MD99C3:BIG CON FOR ME but BIG PRO FOR OTHERS: for as long as I can remember this (since Kindergarten), I’m most turned-on by the faces & skin-color of people of color, especially East Asian looking (and most especially Asian eyes, which IMHO are so beautiful!), and least & typically-not particularly turned-on by the faces & skin-color of my own race (White looking); indeed I’m typically immune to the even the hottest “Playboy bunny” or “Miller Lite Girl” if she’s White! This:
       1. ^MD9OO4:causes me great difficulty (as most people don’t truly-seriously pair-up with other races), so why I list it last, but
       2. ^MD9OOV:is a big benefit to any person of color who is smart enough take advantage of my notable attraction!

2. ^MDAGJW:Nurture including Upbringing/Parenting & subsequent

   1. ^MDASLU:What’s critical is the outcome, which is already covered here.
   2. ^MDAS0F:But if you are curious or doubt me, see the link above.

^MD9QD9:Eating my favorite, your standard HUGE Chipotle Burrito! Munch! Yumm! Taken 2011.12~.

^MD998X:PERSONALITY

1.  ^MDCP5U:I’m good-different! But can you tell?
2. ^MDCPE6:Most essential, and from routine conscious at it per my values, pretty-much everywhere I’m highly accurate & straightforward-indeed-literal, plus as honest, open, & upfront as people can take & then some!
   1. ^MDCPY4:IMHO, life is too short to do otherwise.
   2. ^MDAV2G:And among huge benefits, this should make me easy to understand and even predict –indeed I’m all spelled-out right here!
      1. ^MDCQ0B:But I guess since this is unfortunately so rare, it seems people often don’t believe anyone could be this way (which ticks me off) so then start not believing me & mis-assuming negative things (which of course causes notable problems).
         1. ^MDCQBG: So, starting from the first words of my main bio, I repeatedly alert of this and in introduction section MD8OMC, even guarantee it in dollars & challenge you to do the same.
   3. ^MDCQIR:So JUST TAKE ME AT FACE VALUE and life will be simple & good!
3. ^MD9J95:I’m intense (and for good, but can you tell?)
4. ^MD9J9X:I’m a revolutionary, and a bit of a show-off; specifically I live-to-innovate including innovating & fixing everywhere I’m able to especially where most needed but most given-up-on as seemingly-impossible (so be forewarned: I’ll probably try to fix you! –and in the most profound ways);
5. ^MD9JAZ:I’m super passionate while also being super dedicated & fair and very responsible.
6. ^MDDC6G:I live in & for the global & long-term (“think global, act local”) and still too often not for the moment.
   

   ^MD9PQE:As a First Lieutenant in full dress uniform, and with Danielle, one fine lady I dated; taken on my base ~2007

7. ^MD9JBG:By United States’ best leadership training (Enlisted, Sargent, and Officer), I’m strong leader when needed plus also a careful & obedient follower;
8. ^MD9JOS:I’m very Green plus, like Warren Buffet, personally very unmaterialistic & frugal -and I’d like & challenge you to be the same!
9. ^MD9W2D:I’m very upfront & open & with everything in writing, and I’d really like & challenge you to be the same!
   1. ^MD9WBD:Hint: publish under a pseudonym (as I do) so then you can freely tell everything about yourself.
10. ^MDD6JC:While serious, I”m also playful, & curious, & even mischievous!
11. ^MD9JCS:Unlike any other human I know, I always have Vulcan-level logic & emotional self-control, both from my genetics & especially from the circumstances of my upbringing, including:
    1. ^MDCTDY:Except in time planning, I virtually never make any ___-term decision-or-action of any importance based on mismanaged emotion (mess up maybe 1x per decade & on something small), where ___ is:
       1. ^MDCW3Z:“short-term”, including:
          1. ^MDCVSS:I virtually never say nor short-term do anything “I don’t mean”, meaning due to improperly managed emotion, and I don’t plan to change that; including:
             1. ^MDCTB5:I have never lost my temper & never plan to.
          2. ^MDCSVX:(the source of this): at least short-term, until 2008, like a Vulcan, I didn’t allow my emotions to play any role a decision-or-action I made of-any-importance, though since then I’ve been slowly increasing their role to safe, healthier levels.
       2. ^MDCW6J:“long-term”, though, especially since 2008, I seeing I make notable mistakes
          1. ^MDCWYV:naturally because I’m not really a robot or Vulcan, but human, so one of the costs enormous short-term accuracy is long-term inaccuracies.
          2. ^MDCW7J:Perhaps most seriously, I’m severely taken advantage of by auto-payment, so still paying for stuff I don’t use, perhaps because it takes so much energy to make a re-decision.
    2. ^MDCWJI:Much like Spock or Data of Star Trek, until 2008, I mostly didn’t see the importance & effects emotions played in decision making & action taking, including my own long-term, causing virtually all my bads, but now am slowly learning this.
12. ^MD9JCZ:I’m totally turned-on by these 4 things:
    1. ^MD9JDA:productive & fair intellectual debate/bantering/fighting/competition,
    2. ^MD9JEA:solving the most-needed but most-impossible, and
       
    3. ^MD9JDQ:romantically catching & especially-pleasing a lady, and
    4. ^MD9JED:dancing up a storm to great music -especially super-flashy solo & partner dance like Saturday Night Fever’s John Travolta!
13. ^MDCZ0S:I can’t stand only a few things; they include:
    1. ^MDCZ7Y:hurting any creature or anything unnecessarily, including notables:
       1. ^MDCZAS:hypocrisy
       2. ^MDCZ9S:not keeping promises or suggestions of a 1st date or other socially disposing of anyone
    2. ^MDCZCH:me being idle-or-unchallenged (except when sleeping or in the spa or bath)
14. ^MD9JFH:Like WALL-E (my favorite robot!), I am never bored as there is too much in the world to be fixed! –and to discover!

1. ^MD9HUO:–are to simply live-to innovate for my community & the world and live-by values & goals:
   1. ^MD993T:(1st) “love all” even thy enemies, so
      1. ^MD9WUL:be a friend to all, and
   2. ^MD9940:(2nd) integrity, specifically “do-right always regardless” including:
      1. ^MD9951:“deeply face reality” (“choose reality”, keeping all fantasy within our entertainment & sleep-dreams) -note this is sometimes BIG taboo (by merely taking about any of many topics which are taboo even if it affects you) and
      2. ^MD9959:“the only sin there is is to not do one’s best to see & correct all wrong” -my definition, and reasonably-taboo per common over-reactive “none-of-your business, stay in your lane” & envious “don’t be a hero”, and
      3. ^MD995T:“do-right over do-conventional”
         -so doing all good-taboo so very taboo, and
   3. ^MD9948:(3rd) “be personally fulfilled”
      1. ^MD9K4G:especially “enable all to have fun along the way” and
      2. ^MD9K4Q:most-especially “have a special person to come home to every day, ideally a mate”.
   4. ^MDCYY1:(4th) “Live as if you will die tomorrow.”
2. ^MD993L:-But especially since the 1st & especially 2nd values make me socially pioneering, but true social pioneers initially very unappreciated (so very rare)  and indeed often killed by humans, people then routinely mislabel me bad, both from-misunderstanding & malignly.
3. ^MD9966:Per “do right over do conventional”, I’m good-different! But can you tell? -Remember it isn’t easy tell between insanity & genius!

1. ^MD98XT:I’m a pioneer-for-good. As my father was a pioneer-for-good (including an inventor&founder of the Navy SEALs, to cut enormous war expense & death) plus my sister (founder of a chain of sober living homes), so am I, and in the most-needed but most-taboo (so very rare) field of social-technology.
2. ^MD991Y:But wait, social-technology is the “most-needed field”?? Indeed why am I into social-technology instead of the expected usual technical-technology? - especially given I actually am true MIT CS dancing computer geek! Well even though I run OCAndroid, I have to really ask is better smartphones what we Americans & humans really most need? As today even the bum on the street or person on welfare typically affords & has the virtually the latest Android smartphone (or equivalent). Yet even the wealthiest & most famous men & women, including famous entertainment & government leaders all over the place, routinely have marriages which fail in disaster; plus, and most serious for everyone in America, the broken-family and single- and no-parent kids have long become the norm!, indeed increasingly even dating has gotten never-ending and romances commonly disastrous. So in our love-affair with with the technical-technology (which dramatically changes the social, BTW), it seems we’ve mostly-forgotten indeed are long-overdue, appropriate new social-technology catch-up, and make the world a more human place (instead of a more machine-place!, and where, especially in the big urban areas, humans are becoming increasingly socially disposable!). But it seems most all of the smartest techie people (such as fellow graduates from my alma-mater) are instead running to the safe careers (as IT & science or tech biz or business econ,or else complex-to-deceive money-making schemes as we’ve recently all felt on Wall Street), leaving almost none of brave enough & willing to stand behind & help the social, even though that profoundly affects everyone. So I‘m in!
3. ^MD98YD:But, most especially in the social but certainly not just, in the beginning, most people don’t understand & appreciate pioneers-of-good -from mistaking their being different & brilliant as being crazy; and many people wrongfully-hate pioneers-of-good from really caring only about themselves and often short-shortsightedly: not actually caring that others are being helped, or sometimes that even they too will get helped long-term, but that pioneers-of-good are taking away badness that they‘ve gotten used to and where sometimes they‘ve pioneered&have ways to secretly&wrongfully profit from. So you almost certainly WILL run across (read, hear, & see) things about me which *SEEM* bad.
   

   ^MDD5C8:Martin Luther King

   1. ^MD98YY:But should it be an unpleasant surprise? Of course not! Indeed all serious pioneers-of-good will initially appear as trouble to many, and where that’s not enough, many will also make them appear that they are trouble, as just explained. Indeed history’s greatest ones, people typically murdered (as Jesus, Lincoln, MLK, JFK, & Ghandi) else tried to (Franco was tried as witch, but was so smart she talked them out of it) else locked up for years (Mandella). But don’t go hurting & killing your pioneers-of-good! Instead,
   2. ^MD990B:What-to-do is easy: simply, right-away, tell me what you ran across and talk with me about your reaction to it, just as one should do for most everyone, including to kill rumoring & misunderstanding (plus naturally per my mother’s warning about me: “He may be odd, but odds are he’s right.”!).
      1. ^MD98Z5:–Be a team! See & protect your brave pioneers-for-good. And, together, let’s make a better world for all!

^MD9QV9:An artistic rendering, created by my mother, taken 2006.02.03~.

^MD996P:MY BADS

^MD9KEH:While my above “Vulcan” training seriously helps me in social architecture in terms of somewhat-uniquely being able to very clearly see beyond the emotional frenzy, trends, & customs & culture (including my own) to rather what makes good-sense for everyone long term, it also severely hurts me in terms of marketing (so fully pioneering) these new solutions and better ways, especially in the taboo social, plus for even caring for myself, me actually being human and in a human world –not Vulcan in a Vulcan world! So my most serious core problem is consequently not knowing emotions deeply enough especially for marketing new social methods, including, from most-to-least serious, everything which could affect beyond my family:

1. ^MD996Y:very serious: getting-better-at-but-still-weak-at anticipating & knowing-how-to-deal-with ulterior & unstated motives & values(which most everyone else seems to have), especially selfish or bad ones or ones otherwise different from my own values (which I write for you in advance above, but, to my great disappointment, I seem to be fairly rare to do so)
   1. ^MDD1TW:but not having this weakness is key for any pioneer, most especially a social pioneer, so it hurts me a ton.
2. ^MD9975:very serious: routinely & typically-severely having my good-different mislabled as bad-different
   1. ^MDD1QG:as a consequence of the prior point plus there’s almost no anti-discrimination laws & training yet to protect against these kinds of abuses.
   2. ^MDD1QW:resulting in wrongfully: keeping the world from my best contributions and very much hurting me
3. ^MD997R:forgetting to care for myself especially long-term (having in past too-suppressed my own emotions even telling me to sleep&eat), including I’m a workaholic and kind of an absent-minded professor type, and easily forget to see-I’ve-been-paid & collect-what’s-owed-me
4. ^MD997U:poor at intuitively estimating & balancing & keeping-track-of time time (which it seems to me people mostly do via emotion); often overly optimistic about time, I have at times been late for even my own class I’m teaching.
   

   ^MD9R75:Taken 2004.12.

5. ^MD997X:with my “Vulcan” training, I’ve NONE of the usual serious problems people have, as law breaking, addictions to anything (except innovating most everywhere -that’s wired in me) -indeed I’ve never smoked & never been drunk or intoxicated, ever making bad or hurtful decisions even if super angry, ever mis-placing angry emotions (stopped that at about age 10), nor ever saying something I didn’t mean nor regret as I could have done better.

1. ^MD98ZK:–see my “Other profiles” on my Google bio.
2. ^MEIXDQ:See 1.JotHere.com category “DestinyArchitect”

1. ^MD9IHT:Where? Know anyone quite like me? Unfortunately haven’t found anyone! So if you think you might know someone, let me know!